Conservative Brit Ahuvim Text
On the ______________ day of the week, the ______________ day of the month of ______________ in the year five thousand seven hundred ______, corresponding to the secular date of _____ __, ___, here in ______________ in the country of ______________ we, ______________ the daughter/son of ______________, and ______________ the daughter/son of ______________, before the people and the congregation make this holy declaration:
“Let it be known that our souls are bound one to the other with bonds of love and mutual devotion, and that it is our intention, with God’s help, to be exclusively faithful to each other all the days of our lives upon this earth. As our Sages taught: A person should find a partner with whom to eat, drink, read, study, sleep, and share every secret, secrets of Torah and secrets of life. We shall share from this day a complete partnership, joyfully and wholeheartedly establishing a household in common with moral and financial responsibilities for one another. We shall be loving partners for each other and will cherish, respect, sustain and assist one another in righteousness and faithfulness. With God’s help may our dwelling be filled with love and harmony, peace and companionship, and may we be privileged to nurture together our Jewish heritage, our love for our fellow Jews and the dignity of every creature.”
____________ and __________ further agreed that should either contemplate dissolution of the marriage, or following the dissolution of the marriage in the civil courts, each may summon the other to the Bet Din of The Rabbinical Assembly and the Jewish Theological Seminary, or its representative, and that each will abide by its instructions so that throughout life each will be able to live according to the laws of the Torah.
We, the witnesses, attest that everything that is written and specified above has been done in our presence and is valid and effective.
available for all couples in Hebrew & English
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345 words in English and 220 words in Hebrew
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Originally written for same sex couples, but beautiful for all couples.
In Hebrew & English:
Progressive, Reform, LGBTQ+, and Interfaith couples with a strong Jewish identity. Some heterosexual Conservative Jews may use this text with permission from their officiant. -
Yes, but it may change the Jewish legal interpretation of this text which is designed to have a minimum Jewish legal formula traditional to ketubot. That said, this is a progressive text, so probably won’t be accepted in traditional orthodox circles with or without changes.
If you decide to make changes, you may change the wording of this text by changing words, deleting anything, using sections from other Ketubah Arts’ texts, or adding a few words.
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The couple (optional)
Witnesses (two Jewish adults required)
Officiant (optional)(multiple officiants may sign and line labels are customizable)
Signature line labels and number of lines may be customized to suit the couple’s preferences.
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Wedding Details
Secular wedding date and time
City & State (and country, if outside the USA) of wedding location
Names for the Couple
Full names for the couple in English, as you want them to appear
Hebrew names (see What is a Hebrew Name?)
- if not using a Hebrew name, decide whether you prefer secular names phonetically in Hebrew or the traditional Hebrew format (Name ben/bat Parent and Parent)
Parents’ names in English
First & Last Names for parents in English, if including them
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