Secular
This version of the Reform 1 Ketubah Text removes any references to God or holiness
This ketubah witnesses before family and friends, that on _____ day of the week, the ____ day of the month____ in the year five thousand seven hundred and _________ on the Jewish calendar, corresponding to the _____ day of ______ in the year two thousand and ___, the [groom/bride/beloved], ________, [the son/daughter/child of ________,] and the [groom/bride/beloved], ____________, [the son/daughter/of the family ________,] stood under the chuppah in __________ to celebrate their wedding ceremony. They declared: "With these rings, we pledge ourselves in marriage according to the traditions of Moses and Israel. We promise to be equal partners, loving friends, and supportive companions. We value in each other and ourselves qualities of compassion and forgiveness, understanding and wisdom. Our love will provide us with the strength to be ourselves while cherishing the beauty of our differences. We promise to share in each other’s dreams while not forgetting our own. Because we cherish the closeness that allows us to express our innermost thoughts and feelings, we promise to give one another respect and trust. We promise to support and comfort each other in times of sorrow and to share our joys and triumphs. Our home is a place where all are welcome, and we fill it with laughter and play, understanding and trust, creativity and imagination, friendship and community, companionship and love. With our family and in our home, we will celebrate Jewish holidays and honor the traditions of Judaism and devote ourselves to learning, charity, and acts of kindness." ________ and _________ then together declared before all present that they have signed their names to this ketubah of their own free will without reservation or restraint and they intend to be bound by these promises so long as they shall live.
Helpful Hints:
For couples who prefer no statement of Jewish participation, the Interfaith Secular Text is similar to this one but has no religious commitment.
Many ketubah designs have a quote that can be chosen, most of which are not specifically religious, but are either from the bible or Jewish tradition. If you prefer, you may skip it or add a custom quote from any source.
Purchase the rights to any of the proprietary texts for a one-time use.
Whether you are a couple who found just the right words here and just the right art somewhere else or an artist who wants to make a ketubah for friends, you've come to the right place.
What you get:
Your chosen text in Hebrew & English
Plain or Rich Text Format so that you may format or copy it as you like.
Your text will be placed in a dropbox folder in several formats and a link will be sent via email in 1-2 business days.
Purchase 'Add Names & Dates' to have your text completed with the right information and/or to customize the text in Hebrew & English.
***Please note that this is not a formatted ketubah!!!***
For formatted Ketubah Texts see DIY Ketubah, available in print and digital formats.
Text Information
Available for all couples in Hebrew & English
Estimated Word Count:
Hebrew: 200 words
English: 300 words
Size Recommendation:
Hebrew & English: Medium
Hebrew Only or English Only: Small
Who is this text for?
Any couple who prefers not to use language about God or holiness
Who signs this ketubah?
The couple
Witnesses (two is traditional but more may be added)
Officiant (multiple officiants may sign and line labels are customizable)
Signature line labels and number of lines may be customized to suit the couple’s preferences.
Can the wording of this text be changed?
Couples may change the wording of this text by deleting anything, using sections from other Ketubah Arts’ texts, or adding a few words.
If the text ends up feeling like a completely custom text, couples may be referred to an independent translator to translate to Hebrew.
Email your customized text to ginny@ketubah-arts.com
If you are changing this text, please use ALL CAPS on the changes so that they can be easily incorporated.
What information do I need to order this text?
Secular wedding date and time
City & State of wedding location
Full names for the couple in English
Hebrew names for the couple (see What is a Hebrew Name?)
First and last names for parents in English, if including them
How do I give you my information?
A Ketubah Text Order Form will pop up when you add a ketubah to your shopping cart.